Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Manliness??

About 6 cigarettes in 2 hours! My friend told me about this great (to say) achievement of his. My very first reaction was not to believe him, but then later on I did realize that he was actually telling me the truth. I tried not to speak about it to him and even on that day I did not. But unfortunately (or may be fortunately… I am not so sure about it) I couldn’t get this thing out of my mind. I wouldn’t say that smoking is BAD or the guys who do it can be categorized popularly as BAD, but still there is this one thing coz of which I ,or to generalize, people are not very much comfy with FAGGING. In case anyone wants to go and set their very own lungs to fire, she/he has very much a right to do it. The next time I met my friend I did ask him why he did so… the answer I got did shook something within me. He said, I just did it coz I didn’t had any other thing to do… since I don’t drink and as everyone was doing something I took up a fag, lit it and that’s how it proceeded further.

Surprised and shocked by the answer I spent all these days thinking about it. Then there was one time when I discussed this with another friend of mine… and I wasn’t at all taken aback by what he said in a reply. “Come on! It’s pretty usual in guys… I mean… when there are people around you and they make fun… you gotta do something to look manly!” But yeah, I won’t refuse that I didn’t think upon this. In fact, it was this which lead to the chain of thoughts and finally to this blog.

What is this manliness? Is it some kind of feeling or some permanent genetic fault in human males that encourages them to do stupid things and then justify it? What is this force which lets guys do n number of experiments over themselves in order to prove the popularly famous “Theorem of Manliness” to the others that surround them?
No offences meant to anybody, but I am searching for an answer to these questions.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for your advice!!!!!!
You have opened my eyes....I will be a good "man" from now..

Anonymous said...

JOIN GREENPEACE!!

Sonal Gupta said...

Roxy, believe me, I too thought the same thing as u did. I too was shocked and sad when "this guy" told me that he smoked. Well, I knew y he did as this is very common in guys. I hope he doesnt take it as a habit and I wanna tell him that it is not cool tht he smokes. This habit is too disgusting for ppl esp gals..
bbye

Unknown said...

"ur friend" is a lucky guy!!
His friend writes blogs for him.
I'm sure "your friend" is sorry!!
And who is this dunghead "another friend of urs" :)

Proxy said...

Well Manu... the other friend is the one who is madly in love with my first friend!! Anyways... thanx for supporting me Sonal! Hope... "this guy" who is "my friend" will understand it!!

Sonal Gupta said...

roxy, may be "ur friend" wanted to impress "another friend of urs".. hehehehhehe

The Decayed Canine said...

its a bleddy community service. Smoking keeps all your friends awake during the rigors of pre-TS and alive through the four years here. Dont curse it...
:D

Anonymous said...

I'm sure it's the Y chromosome